How do I give the tip to my vendors at my wedding? This can be challenging to say the least, but let's not make this difficult. You have a lot of other things to worry about instead of how to deliver the tip money to your vendors. I always tell my couples I will be in charge of this area. If you do not have a Wedding Planner, or Day of Coordinator, give it to your Maid of Honor, Best Man, or someone who you trust. You should think about how to deliver the money, what will you